Many men who struggle with unwanted sexual behavior try to go it alone. They believe the lie that sexual brokenness is about sex; when really, it’s about medicating the pain in their lives. Despite their losses—marriage, ministry, relationships, and more—they continue to return to unwanted sexual behaviors.

But the truth is, we cannot fix a problem if we don’t know what’s causing it. Through the Seven Pillars of Freedom you’ll start to understand your whole story and identify what contributes to your sexual behaviors.

You will begin your recovery from unwanted sexual behavior with a trusted group of men on the same journey. Through Seven Pillar’s guided lessons and a trusted community, you will develop the tools necessary to break free, heal your relationship, and take back your life.

Group Information:

Duration: 8-10 months (we will periodically take breaks for 1-2 weeks). Weekly attendance is required. 

Cost: $125 (compared to $799 online via Pure Desire) All materials will be handed out the first day of this group.

The Compassionate Warrior is for men who have gone through Seven Pillars of Freedom and are ready to take their healing to the next level.

This 20-lesson group experience is intended to take men deeper in their healing: deeper in relationship with God, with the people they love, with their family and friends, and even with themselves. This journey is holistic. It will address aspects of what they need to be healthy in several areas of their lives: physically, emotionally, relationally, sexually, and spiritually.

This journey is not only about gaining sobriety and maintaining recovery; it now includes learning how to serve others. It’s about being other-oriented. Throughout the Workbook and Weekly Tools, the focus is more on relationships and God’s plan and purpose for their lives. It is about becoming the man God created them to be—becoming a Compassionate Warrior.

Group Information:

Duration: 6-8 months (we will periodically take breaks for 1-2 weeks). Weekly attendance is required. 

Cost: $125 (compared to $799 online via Pure Desire) All materials will be handed out the first day of this group.

-gain a greater understanding of how the trauma from betrayal is impacting your mind, body, and soul. 

-apply strategies to keep you safe and emotionally healthy.

-identify and recognize the symptoms of trauma. 

-incorporate proactive strategies to alleviate trauma symptoms during times of stress. 

-learn the power of self-care. 

-reestablish trust and emotional health in your relationship.

-create a plan for your future that is informed, intentional, and healthy. 

Group Information:

Duration: 8-10 months (we will periodically take breaks for 1-2 weeks). Weekly attendance is required. 

Cost: $125 (compared to $799 online via Pure Desire) All materials will be handed out the first day of this group.

The Bible and other literature have told us for literally thousands of years that if we want to change who we are and what we do, we have to change our heart. New understanding from brain research shows us how trauma, abuse and neglect can distort who we are and what we believe and thus how we act.

Genesis initiates lasting heart changes and helps heal the wounds that drive our destructive behaviors - rather just coping with them any longer.

-The Genesis Process helps those who are willing to change. The goal of the process is to identify the subconscious fears (which are survival belief systems) that control our self-destructive behavior and emotions, helping us resolve them. Whether the issue is anxiety, anger, alcohol, drug or food abuse, a negative, critical attitude, or spiritual stagnation, The Genesis Process will help us find new freedom that lasts.

The Genesis Process blends sound biblical principles and the latest understanding of the brain. 

Group Information:

Duration: 6-8 months w. periodic breaks. Weekly attendance is required. 

Cost: $125 All materials will be handed out the first day of this group.